ive been trying to think of something worth writting for the past few days to finally come back to the idea, that if given a great opportunity we blow it. simple in idea, but giant in reality. it almost comes back to regret, but is the fear we all have inside, the fact to have something perfect scares us, its too good to be true?? or is it? when asking 3 female's (taking note that it is only 3 i have asked) i asked if given the chance to have the "fairy tale" like that in the notebook, all three said yes. But when asked if they would trust a man who they bearly know after some odd years of no contact, if they would break off being married to another man, who they love, and would be happy with, 2/3 said no, and i think the 1/3 was lieing. lol. but really. would you give it wall up? no. of course not. so its not that we mess up the perfection, its that we are too scared to try, to scared to let go of what we have already gained.
so ask yourself. are you one of the 2/3rds?
i am.
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See, I've always had that problem with The Notebook, too. I have always been SO pissed that the nice guy (as lame as they make him...to try and MAKE you not like him) gets completely shafted because she goes off with this Noah boy.
But if you were torn from the one who you found to be your soul mate, you would have to try to make it happen. Imagine that. She is right there. She was taken from you, and now there's nothing stopping you.
She simply wasn't fair to who she was with. In the end, I understand that you simply have to choose your soul mate, but she shouldn't have run off with Noah. She should have broken the engagement, explained herself, and not left that guy (Cyclops from X-Men...how do you turn that down!?) high and dry.
not only that, but even all of us would never leave him to begin with, if we are happy? we would never leave.
It is so rare for a love that true to come along, that most of the time it's not even worth the chance. Does that make sense?
But, to be honest, I think that most people would go for it. If you truly loved someone, and they were taken away from you, and then you were given the chance to be with that person (who you swore you'd be with forever) again...I'm sorry, but love conquers all. The man she's with now does make her happy, he would provide for her, but he doesn't make her feel complete the way Noah does.
And I don't think I understood that until I truly loved someone.
but is love nothing more than something we make. i dont think it just happens.
sadly i dont believe people would leave a relationship so quickly, cheating is one thing, but to take that next step is a completely next step.
the fact that you are putting this perspective of a notebook like fairy tale into a perfection level, makes it so unrealistic to the fact that altho you can put a million polls out there about what women would rather have, none of them would truly know. life isn't about multiple choice questions, and all of the above situations. i'm not saying that stories like these don't happen (they are "real" in dreams and sometimes in real life), but what i'm trying to explain is the fact that not everyone is fortunate enough to go through love, or loss, or anything like that. some people don't know what love is, not it being their fault, but just life. happiness is not the grandeur of the moment, but the more eternal happiness of your life. love is not a word you can define through a story, through a dictionary, or even through asking what people think. love is defined by people and what they do with what they believe that is. meanings don't make meanings; people make meanings.
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